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Who’s the Asshole? with Katya

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Have you ever wondered, "Am I the asshole?" Then you've come to the right place. Welcome to “Who’s the Asshole?,” a Grindr podcast hosted by Katya, where we’re not just talking shit, we’re getting into it. Each week, we sit down with a special guest and probe deep into your messiest, juiciest stories of lust, love, and everything in between…the cheeks. We’ll mine the Grindr Voicemail (510-ASS-HOLE) for your unholiest confessions and give you the truth, the hole truth, and nothing butt the truth.

Have you ever wondered, "Am I the asshole?" Then you've come to the right place. Welcome to “Who’s the Asshole?,” a Grindr podcast hosted by Katya, where we’re not just talking shit, we’re getting into it. Each week, we sit down with a special guest and probe deep into your messiest, juiciest stories of lust, love, and everything in between…the cheeks. We’ll mine the Grindr Voicemail (510-ASS-HOLE) for your unholiest confessions and give you the truth, the hole truth, and nothing butt the truth.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Alaska 5000) | Grindr

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Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Alaska 5000) | Grindr 22 Oct 2026

hiiieeeeeeeeeeee 💙 we’re hosting Alaska 5000 as our final guest star! you’ve made it to the end of the season, so… party.Oh Mary! the brunette bombshell, known as the 49th state, is here to teleport you to Planet Glamtron, ready to read you wrote you down on all things Sandra Bullock, the transverbiant word of the century “painting”, and sucking a d*ck and starting a business.an*sthing is possible on the finale of Season 5 of “Who’s the A**hole,” so pucker up and fix your makeup before next season because it’s TERRIBLE. https://youtu.be/kciW0RlgOnw

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. George Civeris) | Grindr 15 Oct 2026

opa-n up a**holes! we’re greeking out this episode… comedian and funny guy extraordinaire, George Civeris, is our guest star this week on the pod.you better step your Charlize Therussy up this episode, baby, he’s bringing Katya on an Odyssey. encounter clown s*x and open relationships on this journey, then pass through the seas of serious scarecrow play, to finally end up on the shores of Eiffel Towering.so, let’s set sail for the seas this episode, and keep your flag at full mast 💦 https://youtu.be/TfQB0cXyHPA

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Evan Mulrooney) | Grindr 08 Oct 2026

he didn't send you biceps today? don't worry this week’s guest has you covered! hunky heartthrob and comedian Evan Mulrooney is our guest star this week, prepare to swoon. we bet you never saw this train coming 💦 or did you? 👀 clench your cheeks and start mogging because the working man's Henry Cavill is loading up your screen for the next 35 minutes with top tier impressions, intimate details, and ingenious takes. Pucker up, guys, gals, and other pals because the Roondawg (first of his kind) is speaking 😉https://youtu.be/O98jazhcOtw

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Jaboukie Young-White) | Grindr 01 Oct 2026

Comedian, actor, and chill guy Jaboukie Young-White is giving good ho…st this week as our guest star on the pod! Hope you got a good Pilates stretch in because we’re hosting a lavender marriage on set between these comedy legends. Everyone’s got a past, but not everyone can say they were (possibly) the FBI’s most wanted at one point. Or that the next time they’ll see their last hookup is at their family reunion 😬So stand up and give him a warm a**hole welcome to Jaboukie! We're going deeper than ever before… looking for Thursdays? Tune in every Thursday at 10a PST for a new episode starting September 17 https://youtu.be/DA3Zer04UaA

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Mary Beth Barone) | Grindr 24 Sep 2026

vroom vroom A**hole, let’s RIDE… the hilarious Mary Beth Barone is our passenger princess this episode. our hilarious modern-day saint patron of beauty matches Katya's improved insanity: invisalign? hardest feat out there. showing a pic of your Larry David look-alike niece? biggest red flag there is. keep your galaxy brain in orbit because Mary Beth is delivering FUNNY (and possibly a 2nd Netflix special)we're going deeper than ever before… looking for Thursdays? Tune in every Thursday at 10a PST for a new episode starting September 17https://youtu.be/SL0fl38Lo4A

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Matt Rogers) 17 Sep 2026

Christmas came 💦 early this year because Prince of XXXmas, Matt Rogers, is our first guest star on Season 5 of “Who’s the A**hole”! so 🍆 Katya’s halls, and sit down for a total flirt fest.you gotta hear it to believe it (or contact your local psychic) because Katya and Matt couldn’t keep it to the cards. ever wondered if (fake) breaking up with your imaginary boyfriend is a good way to get out of straddling mature trade? or if Glinda should’ve been a fruit fly to 2 gays instead of 1? well... sit down and loosen up, because baby, we’re kicking off Season 5 of Who’s the A**hole with a BANG! we're going deeper than ever before… looking for Thursdays? tune in every Thursday at 10a PST for a new episode starting September 17

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Lushious Massacr) | Grindr 19 Mar 2026

don’t do it, BRICK! our season 4 finale is here and getting dragvestigated down to the trade! the one and only Lushious Massacr graces your screens to sign us off (until next season 👀🍑🕳️)this creature feature is nothing short of glamour and units. let us take you to pound town (minus the trade), twist your skin tag n*pples, and demand that we get more real dolls and bricks in the media!

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Pat Regan) | Grindr 12 Mar 2026

and this week’s word of the pod? N*PPLES! Guest stars Pat Regan and Katya are perked up and begging for a twist.pick your jaw up off the floor because these two have the hottest take on the 2026 version of a “booty call”, why a roster of 7 is top tier (no writers allowed), and the real reason Pat came on the Grindr podcast.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Jeremy Scott) | Grindr 05 Mar 2026

it’s hamburger couture, honey! Hope you’re red carpet ready this week because we have designer, Jeremy Scott on the pod!don’t cut the cameras, dead *ss(hole). the multiverse of Katya gets bigger as she faces her camp fashion twin in a clash of the units. these two play word-vom ping pong on the nicest super models in the biz, Celine Dion grabbing Katy’s meat, and how a hard-front and lace table cloth is drag mama! so get your close-ups now (before Katya gets sweaty)

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Peaches) | Grindr 26 Feb 2026

let your full freak flag fly and put your 🍆 in the air! the teaches of Peaches is going to have you grindin’ away the pain so good. have you ever wondered why no lube is actually so rude? have your udders ever been so cracked you needed a cream? what about your s*x toy’s autonomy, does your fleshjack run the world under your unwashed pillow? Katya has finally found someone to match her freak and answer all of your very specific and burning questions. so sit down, lube up, because clASS is in session.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Colton Underwood) | Grindr 19 Feb 2026

what happens when 2 tight-ends link up on a pod? well… that’s a question for another episode because this week we welcome Colton Underwood as our guest star on wta we have guy dudes scoring a touchdown as they huddle on fatherhood, losing their v card to an audience of 6 million, locker room etiquette, and more. Are you ready to (wide) receive this insider info? if not, well i’m calling a penalty.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Jinkx Monsoon) | Grindr 12 Feb 2026

Babe, wake up! Our narcoleptic Doll of the Year, Broadway's Box Office Magnet, and 2-time Drag Race Winner, Jinkx Monsoon, is the premiere guest of “Who’s the A**hole” Season 4! The busiest woman in showbiz stopped by the pod to have her annual kiki with Katya. I hope you’re PREPped and ready to listen to your last two brain cells have a gab-off on all things sloppy-second morals, growth journeys, being the most talented drag-race girl, and so much more…because that’s showbiz, baby!

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Jordy) | Grindr 27 Mar 2025

Time to check in, get sexy, and check out for the season finale of “Who’s The A**hole?” Our final episode features none other than pop boy next door, Jordy! It’s no topics refused… rating your neighbor's Oscar-nominated bedroom performance, how Katya and JORDY are saying no to bottoming (this one time), and much more to keep you well-fed until next season 🍑

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Joel Kim Booster) | Grindr 20 Mar 2025

Is this thing (turned) on? This week We have actor, comedian, and writer Joel Kim Booster on “Who’s the A**hole?” with Katya. Shower fun? That’s just legal waterboarding. Why is lube so expensive? In this economy!? Daddy Issues? We got em' too. These are the questions Katya and Joel tackle together in this week’s episode. Clap those cheeks for a standing ovation as these two tag team the pod! Watch now on our YouTube channel or wherever you get your podcasts.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Meg Stalter) | Grindr 13 Mar 2025

Hi gays! Today we’re sashaying into a brand new episode on the pod with renowned funny girl, Meg Stalter. Clap those cheeks for a standing ovation as she matches Katya’s freak, going toe-to-toe on dating advice and poly people have a distinct musk. Are you ready to be an a**hole and not care who knows it?!

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Zachary Zane) | Grindr 06 Mar 2025

Having a high Grindr screen time doesn’t make you a sex and relationship expert, but Grindr’s resident sex and relationship expert Zachary Zane is teaching you how to become one on this week’s episode of “Who’s the A**hole?” with Katya. This week, these two are manhandling topics like combatting sl*t shaming, dealing with sex negativity, and why bisexuals need your FULL attention. Sit your pretty peach down and lock in because we’re taking you for a wild ride.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Gus Kenworthy) | Grindr 27 Feb 2025

Going for the gold this week… We’re bringing world-renowned Olympian, Gus Kenworthy, to the pod! Strap up and slope down as Katya and Gus get into a full ski-kiki in this episode of “Who’s The A**hole?” We hope you’re warmed up... hear Gus’ takes on being the first openly gay pro athlete + how serial monogamy has led him to a life of looking for a third. Get ready to cheer these two on as they take home the trophy this season.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Christian Cowan) | Grindr 20 Feb 2025

We brought the fashion house down (teletubby) boots for Grindr’s runway debut. Please welcome to the runway, fashion icon Christian Cowan! Christian and Katya aren’t holding back in this episode of “Who’s The Asshole?” Get prepped to hear Christian’s fashion bops or flops, how Naomi Campbell has the best wigs in the biz, and all the brain rot you internet kids can imagine. So sit front row and get ready for your close up, it’s the hottest goss of the season.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Lisa Rinna) | Grindr 13 Feb 2025

These lips were made for talking, and that's just what they'll do... We're starting Season 3 with a bang, with the Queen of Hollywood (and our hearts) - Lisa F*%cking Rinna! We're getting right into it, and we're owning it, baby!

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Evan Ross Katz) | Grindr 17 Oct 2024

Oh you wanted one more? We're back this week with an episode that is sure to cause some whispers on the gay internet, but our guest is used to all that. Overlord of the internet, professional tweeter, and certified yapper (interviewer) Evan Ross Katz is here! Katya and Evan sit down to talk pop culture, celebrity tea, the dark corners of the internet. Of course they are also discussing our user's stories, and deciding once and for all "Who IS the a**hole?"

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Brandon Kyle Goodman) | Grindr 10 Oct 2024

Hello Heuaxs (complimentary) Brandon Kyle Goodman is opening his 'BIG MOUTH' on the pod this week! Discussing all things werk, the New York Grindr grid , and his professional 'human resources' opinion on your most vulnerable WTA stories. It's not Monday, but we're getting MESSY!

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (Bowen Yang) | Grindr 03 Oct 2024

Roll out the red carpet, rizzlords, because multi-hyphenate Hollywood darling Bowen Yang is plane and ferrying in from Oz to join to join Katya on this week’s episode. If you thought Hollywood was done casting straight actors in gay roles, wait until these two pitch you Clint Eastwood as a bathhouse diva. But it doesn’t stop there. Bowen monologues on how bedroom positions can make or break a relationship and why Fire Island does indeed deserve the hype. These two are ready to take you there, and trust—you’ll never think of feet play the same way again.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (Gottmik) | Grindr 26 Sep 2024

Divas, it’s full lobotomies at the meet-and-greet, and honestly, you might need one after this episode. Gottmik spills on her journey as a trans artist and author, drag race runway-burning fashionista, and her pulse-pounding Grindr success stories. And Gottmik is serving you more than just face, she’s bringing a whole new meaning to painting, giving trade a show, and kaikai’ing with RuGirls. And if that wasn’t enough, this rotted duo will have you in stitches as they tackle your A**hole or Not voicemails. Katya’s ready, Gottmik’s spilling—good luck keeping your head on straight.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (Queen of Melrose) | Grindr 19 Sep 2024

This episode is turning the diva levels up to eleven as Katya welcomes the fabulous Cosmo Lombino, the Queen of Melrose herself! Hollywood’s own gossip queen doesn’t do subtle. She’s loud, she’s everywhere, and somehow she knows everything. Hollywood’s secrets? She got them. The rest of us? Just trying to keep up with her. Get ready for a riveting ride through the wild world of celebrity styling, as Cosmo dishes on her cheek-clapping encounters with icons like: Madonna throwing bouquets, Beyoncé’s sweetness, and the chaotic fashion escapades of Kelly Clarkson and Harry Styles. With hot topics like ghosting, hookups with DL trade, sober living, and the unfiltered life of a fashion guru, Katya and Cosmo will have you wheezing with laughter and questioning your own dating choices.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Adam Lambert) | Grindr 12 Sep 2024

Get ready to turn up the heat, darlings, because this week we’ve got the sensational Adam Lambert joining Katya for an episode of irresistible allure. Adam’s about to take us on a wild ride through his rock star life, popping his dark room cherry, downloading porn on dial-up, and some upcoming projects that will make your hole twitch. And if that’s not enough, Adam and Katya will be diving deep into some of your wildest, most outrageous stories to decide who’s the real diva and who’s the ultimate asshole. Get ready to indulge in a deliciously seductive episode where boundaries are pushed and the tea is spilled…

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Saucy Santana) | Grindr 14 Mar 2024

Gather ’round, hoes, we’re getting into it with the one and only Material Gworl, Saucy Santana. Joining Katya, the two dive deep into some truly heinous tales of hookups, dating, and debauchery. First on the docket, Saucy’s spilling the tea on his time with the Grande Dame of Pop — Madonna. Saucy’s also got stories from the Grindr trenches that’ll make your dad squeal a lil. Forget etiquette—this is the raw, uncut guide to the gay agenda, and Professor Santana is ready to take you to school.

Who's the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Trace Lysette) | Grindr 29 Feb 2024

Thirsty? We got the juice. This week Katya and actress/activist/multi-hyphenate Trace Lysette spill some hot Hollywood tea, and nothing’s off the table—except the bullshit (it’s not in season right now). They’re yapping about steamy celebrity hookups, messy blind dates, and outrageous bedroom tales that are not for the faint of hole. Trace gets candid about dating as a trans woman in Hollywood, and we’re here for it. Get those rosaries ready and get on your knees—Katya and Trace are taking us to church.

Who’s the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Jordan Firstman) | Grindr 22 Feb 2024

Open wide and come hungry—we’re serving sloppy seconds on Episode 2 of Who’s the A**hole, with special guest Jordan Firstman. This week, Katya and Jordan spar over all the essentials—we’re talking 12-inch death wishes, giving head with condoms (no, like… sometimes it’s necessary), lube-related near-death experiences, and how there literally has never been a funny straight man (ever). Is being gay over? Is Billy Crystal still f*ckable? Are you an a**hole if you pretend you’ve never seen your Starbucks barista on Grindr after ghosting him days ago? There’s only one way to find out...

Who’s the A**hole? with Katya (feat. Orville Peck) | Grindr 15 Feb 2024

Well, slap our holes and call us daddy. Welcome to the first episode of “Who’s the Asshole?,” featuring the fringe-adorned cowboy of your dreams, Orville Peck. This week, Katya and Orville field Grindr voicemails and spill the tea on their Brad Pitt fantasies, ill-fated dates, bad celebrity crushes, and an airport heartbreak that will leave us all unpacking for weeks. Is young better than old? Are babies assholes? Do people who wear Crocs need therapy? Who’s to say? Well, they are.

Who’s the Asshole? with Katya | Podcast Teaser 07 Feb 2024

Pucker up—we’re going deep. Grindr presents: “Who's the Asshole?,” a podcast hosted by Katya, penetrating your ears on February 15th.